Sunday, May 04, 2008

20080504 Acknowledge Broken Relationship 正视破裂的关系

This is taken from the Mandarin service. Elder Jimmy spent a large portion of time sharing what he learned about marriage from the MMI course.

We need to acknowledge the broken relationship in our life and find ways to mend them.

In Genesis 42, we continue to read about Joseph's story. He became the prime minister of Egypt. He was responsible to sell grains. He recognized his brothers but pretended he did not. He spoke harshly to them. He also remembered his two dreams. He now saw 10 brothers bowing to him.

Joseph had an opportunity to avenge himself. But he wanted to take the opportunity mend his broken relationship with his brothers.

When there is a broken relationship, we need to acknowledge it, admit our mistakes and forgive.

Joseph's brothers wanted to kill him because Jacob loved him more. There is a generational gap between the parents and children today. The older generation thinks we should not verbalize our love. The family today finds it hard to say I love you, I'm sorry and thank you.

Children are impatient with parents. Parents give in the all the children's request. This may result in a broken relationship.

Husband and wife have the same problems. The divorce rate is high. Divorce is not an option for Christians. If we are to love others like ourselves, why are there still problems?

In Gen, we see that God created Adam in his own image. Eve is created from Adam's rib. Man and woman complement one another. When man falls, lots of problems arise. There is a communication breakdown. Another cause is the couple not clear with their respective responsibilities. The husband is the encourager. The wife wants to listen to the husband. The wife is the supporter of the husband. The husband needs the respect and support of the wife. The husband is the lead the family. He is the leader but not the king. He should use his authority in love and give security to the family. Wife is normally more spiritual. She should be the helpmate. The original Hebrew for helpmate is to surround.

1Ti 5:8 But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

The husband is to provide. The wife is to manage the household.

The husband is the prayer warrior. He is to protect the family lead the family in spiritual warfare. The wife is the intercessor in the family.

Hudson Taaylor and John Wesley both grew up in praying families.

If we do not take responsible for our own things, the burden will fall on the other or it will be neglected.

When we noticed a broken relationship, we need to take the first step towards reconciliation. Joseph might want to know if his brothers had changed.

We need to forgive, i.e. to forget the debts unconditionally. In Matthew, we learn that if we forgive others, we will be forgiven by God. We ask God to help us.

Sometimes, we ask God to forgive us but we refuse to let go of something someone did to us.

Monday, April 28, 2008

Follow whose guidance?

Casting Crown has a song called What If His People Pray. I love Casting Crown. I'll share the lyrics here.

What If His People Prayed Lyrics
What if the armies of the Lord
Picked up and dusted off their swords
Vowed to set the captive free
And not let satan have one more

What if the Church, for heaven's sake
Finally stepped up to the plate
Took a stand upon God's promise
And stormed hell's rusty gates

Chorus I:
What if His people prayed
And those who bear His name
Would humbly seek His faith, yeah
And turn from their old ways

And what would happen if we prayed
For those raised up to lead the way
Then maybe kids in school could pray
And unborn children see light of day

What if the life that we pursue
Came from a hunger for the truth
What if the family turned to Jesus
Stopped asking Oprah what to do

Chorus I:
What if His people prayed
And those who bear His name
Would humbly seek His face yeah
And turn from their own way
Chorus II:
He said that He would hear
His promise has been made
He'll answer loud and clear, yeah
If only we would pray

Bridge:
If My people call by My name
If they'll humble themselves and pray
If My people call by My name
If they'll humble themselves and pray

Choruses:
What if His people prayed
And those who bear His name
Would humbly seek His face, yeah
And turn from their old ways
He said that He would hear
His promise has been made
He'll answer loud and clear yeaah
If only we would pray

(Choruses and bridge ad lib)

The last line of the 2nd stanza has a reference to Oprah. It is no joke. Do not underestimate the influence of Oprah and the power of media.

I share with you some resources that explains the situation.

The Church of Oprah Exposed
Oprah's Spirituality: Exploring a New Earth
Oprah's Spirituality: It's No Secret
Oprah and Eckhard Tolle's New Earth
Genuine Jesus or Counterfeit Christ?
Ancient New Age

The world is not my home.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Practicing Your Faith When You Face Temptations

(Sorry for posting it late. My modem is not working. I was rather busy in the office yesterday. It did cross my mind to post this but I didn't do it. Here's a shout out to all my readers out there. Be good! Keep the faith. Let nothing and no one diminish it.)

In the month of April 2008, the theme is the Practice of Faith as part of the main theme of Foundation of Faith. We will examine Joseph's life in Gen 37-41.

When Tempted to Sin (Gen 39)

What is Temptation?

Jas 1:13-17 Let no one say when he is tempted, "I am being tempted by God," for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. (14) But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. (15) Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. (16) Do not be deceived, my beloved brothers. (17) Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.

God is the source of every good thing. We cannot say we are tempted by God. Temptation is an entry to sin in our life. We cannot blame others for our temptations. Adam cited the woman God gave him as the reason for his disobedience.

1Co 10:6 Now these things took place as examples for us, that we might not desire evil as they did.

Mat 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Eph 4:22 to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires,

Rom 13:14 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.

Temptations begin in our heart. Temptation is not sin, it's an advertisement to entice us to purchase! Until we purchase we have not sin. The 3-step process of temptation: lust – sin – death. Temptation cannot be evil or wicked. It is part of living.

Conclusion: What lies before each type of sins? Temptations.

What is one of the most important lessons in your hiliness journey?

Immediately identify when … (we are tempted.)

Why?

Because it is at that very moment that you must turn away.

We need to look to God, upgrade our gear and flee rom temptation.

The Relationship – Foundation (Gen 39:1-6a)

Gen 39:3 His master saw that the LORD was with him and that the LORD caused all that he did to succeed in his hands.

  1. Joseph's relationship with God was visible to others.
  2. Joseph's sensitivity to the Lord's presence filled him with a sense of purpose.
  3. Joseph found meaning in service, he left his past behind.

Gen 42:18-21 On the third day Joseph said to them, "Do this and you will live, for I fear God: (19) if you are honest men, let one of your brothers remain confined where you are in custody, and let the rest go and carry grain for the famine of your households, (20) and bring your youngest brother to me. So your words will be verified, and you shall not die." And they did so. (21) Then they said to one another, "In truth we are guilty concerning our brother, in that we saw the distress of his soul, when he begged us and we did not listen. That is why this distress has come upon us."

Joseph dealt with his hurt. Until and unless we dealt with our hurt and suffering, we cannot fulfill our purpose in life.

The temptation every believer face is complacency.

The Bottom Line – Character (Gen 39:6b-9)

Gen 39:8 But he refused and said to his master's wife, "Behold, because of me my master has no concern about anything in the house, and he has put everything that he has in my charge.

  1. Temptation is persistent, see Potiphar's wife's emphatic command.
  2. Joseph's utter or complete refusal.
  3. Joseph's appeal to Potiphar's trust in him. He doesn't want to violate Potiphar's trust.

Gen 39:9a He is not greater in this house than I am, nor has he kept back anything from me except yourself, because you are his wife.

Joseph gave three reasons not to sleep with Potiphar's wife:

  1. No one is greater in the house than him. He will not undermine / violate the trust given to him.
  2. The couple's marriage vows. The wife made a vow with Potiphar.
  3. Joseph's personal harm. He will be removed if he sins. (He was put in to prison later but that's another story.)

Gen 39:9b How then can I do this great wickedness and sin against God?"

Our ability to resist temptation depends on our spiritual orientation / principles of God, not based on what we think or what people say. Joseph doesn't want to miss the mark.

Character = all the qualities that make a person or thing what he, she or it is. Habit is actually character. Character is the sum of your habits. It is how you habitually acts.

Life is built on character and character is built on the decision we made daily. When we don't like to read the Bible but we still read, when we bless even when we are cursed, that it character.

CHARACTER =

Self-discipline

+ Core Values

+ Sense of Identity (what the Bible says we are, not self-perception)

+ Emotional Security

If we grow all of these together, we will build a strong character. Character is revealed through behavior.

Question to Ponder:

When we are tempted to sin, what commitments of your own could help you overcome that temptation? What core values / foundation can help us?

The Approach – Faithfulness (Gen 39: 10-15, 19-20)

Gen 39:11a But one day, when he went into the house to do his work …

  1. Temptation is persistent (Gen 39:10)
  2. Joseph's spiritual sensitivity (Gen 39:10)
  3. Joseph was faithful.
  4. Flee from temptation (Gen 39:12)
  5. Perhaps part of the wantonness displayed by Potiphar's wife was due to her idleness.
  6. Continual allurement to sin and disobedience has the capacity to diminish our resolve toward faithfulness.

Refuse = he did not listen or hearken unto her, i.e. fell on deaf ears.

An idle mind is the devil's battlefield.

Do not expose ourselves to a situation which invites suspicion / false accusations AND tempts us to sin.

What could it cost your long-term if you fail to resist the temptations you face? Perhaps we need more accountability? The moment we share the temptation we face, the power of temptation is broken.

What price would you be willing to pay to avoid giving in to temptation?

In what ways have you paid the price for resisting temptation (Gen 39:19-20)?

1Co 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

1Co 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God [is] faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear [it].

In our quest of personal holiness we need to understand temptation as mentioned in this verse. The greatest struggle in the church today is not that we don't have the Word or we don't read the Word.

Greater is He that is in us that he is in the world. But how great do we allow Jesus to be in our life?

Principles

  1. Temptation is common to all.
  2. God is faithful in His action on our behalf.
    1. God gauges the intensity of the temptation.
    2. God provides the provision of an escape. ("make" in 1 Cor 10:13 is the same as the one where God made man and women.)
  3. We are to do the bearing
    1. "Bear" = "to bear up under"; the idea of endurance and fortitude under stress & distress
    2. We can always find strength to be able to endure it

It is useless to pray for victory over temptation if we do not hate the sin.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

It's getting scary

From Big Mac to Chici Mac: The future of fast food

Last Friday Sarah White told us about the launch of the 754-calorie, four all-beef patty Mega Mac by MacDonald’s Japan. Mari Kanazawa reports today that MacDonald’s cannot hide behind its food stylists. The Japanese blogosphere is full of actual photographs of the sandwich, which appears somewhat smashed, gray, and greasy in real life.


In January 2002, years before the Mega Mac introduction, Takeshi Fukuda and his friends presciently speculated on what MacDonald’s Japan may have up its sleeves for the future. As they added beef patties they eventually ran out of mathematical prefixes and began to resort to Marx Brothers references. (Takeshi also reminds us that the regular hamburgers at McDonald’s Japan that they bought for this stunt only cost 60 yen at the time.)

Who said one cannot be a politician and love God at the same time?

by LifeSiteNews Staff : Apr 9, 2008 : LifeSiteNews.com
http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008/apr/08040204.html

"This is an awesome experience. We had a fantastic turnout and a fantastic message. Rep. Kern and her husband spoke a message of forgiveness, redemption and hope through Jesus Christ. This is an historic moment for Oklahoma...This is a great day for all who love righteousness."

Rep. Sally Kern(Oklahoma City)—Upwards of 3,000 people gathered on April 2 to rally at the Oklahoma State Capitol in support of Rep. Sally Kern, reportedly spilling over onto all levels of the Rotunda. Concerned Women for America (CWA) joined with over 50 pastors to sponsor the event in support of Rep. Kern's Biblical stand for traditional marriage in the face of great opposition from activists.

Matt Barber, CWA's Policy Director for Cultural Issues, said, "This astronomical show of support for Rep. Sally Kern today sends a strong message. People with traditional values who value God's design for human sexuality will not be intimidated and bullied into silence. Political correctness can never trump truth. Sally Kern stood for truth, and she was hated for it. She was persecuted for Christ, but the Body of Christ was there to lift her up. Sally was faithful to God, and He was faithful to her in return. This is a great day for all who love righteousness."

CWA of Oklahoma State Director Linda Caswell said, "This is an awesome experience. We had a fantastic turnout and a fantastic message. Rep. Kern and her husband spoke a message of forgiveness, redemption and hope through Jesus Christ. This is an historic moment for Oklahoma."